If there was ever a month I would not want to relive, it would be August! So much happened since my last post by the pool doing my knee exercises. Two days later my dearest was back in the hospital with more blood loss, tests and procedures. Thankfuly they found the reason and corrected the blood situation. However. the trauma of all that left him too weak to come home, so he was transfered to a Rehab Facility to work on getting his strength to a place he could do the stairs and come home. The picture above is my dearest getting some assistance from our grandson Elijah who is a RN and came to visited his grandpa.
The Rehab had a nice patio area and this was taken the day he was able to come home. The Rehab Facility had it's good, bad an ugly. The good was the Physical Therapist and how they were able to get my dearest walking on his own and doing stairs. The bad was three patients to a room with a flimsy curtian in between sharing one bathroom. Don was in the middle with the gentleman on the right had been there seven years partially paralized with a stroke, one the right, a man that one could only discribe as from the loony bin. Kept asking Don to get a car and take him home. Tried to escape twice. But the ugly was the food! I won't go into details, but he refused most of it, and lived on eggs and pudding. We took food a few times an he ate on the patio.
Meantime, "back at the ranch" HaHa I was tested positive for Covid and since my energy tanks were already at rock bottom it hit me with a fury. Bless my daughter Michel, she took me to her house and isolated me to the back bedroom and bath. She gave me my meds every two hours round the clock. I don't remember ever being so sick. But after 14 days with meds and sleep and chicken soup, I was doing much better.
Don and I both got to come home at the same time. Don will now have home nurse care 3xweek for the month of September. So I would never want to have another August like this past one, I'm excited for Fall and Michel has helped me put up a few decorations. There truly is NO PLACE LIKE HOME.
I want to thank you for all the love, concern and prayers and cards from all of you dear blog friend. Hopefully I'm back, and will be over to visit and catch up on each of you and what's going on in your lives.
so glad you are both home now Wanda! Life throws the unexpected at us and we have to try to survive.
ReplyDeleteYes it does. We are surviors! Glad to be home.
DeleteDear Wanda, it certainly sounds like it was a difficult month. So glad to hear you two are doing much better and on the mend. My mom was in a nursing home for 2-1/2 months after she was hit by a truck and had several surgeries -- her biggest complaint was definitely the food. The day she was released and I was able to take her home, and even though she had to maneuver a walker, we went straight to a restaurant with my brother for lunch. :) You two take care of yourselves. Hugs and blessings.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your story. How similar our lives can be. Yes, it's taking a while for Don to get back his old appitite. He really enjoyed the meals we brought.
DeleteOh Wanda, I hope you never have to go through another "August" again! I'm glad you're home and so thankful for your daughter. I know that was a lot of stress for her too. I guess now when David's mom complains about the food in her facility, we'll have to believe her :) I hope your September turns out to be restful and cozy and nothing but pleasant, peaceful days. Take care :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Debbie. So glad to have it behind us. Yes, it seems to be the biggist complaint of rest homes and rehab facilities. You would think they could do better. September is already looking so much brighter. Thanks for your visits and encouraging words.
DeleteThank God everything worked out well, Wanda and I pray this August never repits itself.
ReplyDeleteWe had months like that, when everything seems to go wrong and you're right: THERE'S NO PLACE LIKE HOME!
Praying for you, your hubby and your wonderful family!
Hi Paula. Thanks so much for the visit and encouragement, I've never enjoyed our home more. Thanks for the prayers too...They are being answered.
DeleteMy husband also had to spend many days in the hospital in different occasions, and I never missed our home more than when that happened.
DeleteSo, I can relate. God is with you!
I have been worried about you... I checked everyday to see if you had made a post and when I saw this one today I was overly excited. What a month you both have had. So sorry, but thank goodness for family that help take care of us. Praying you both gain much strength and that in no time you both will be feeling strong. Take care and please keep us updated on your health as well as your sweet hubby's.
ReplyDeleteHi sweet Shug ~ Thank you for caring about us. We are doing better, and taking it one day at a time and getting lots of rest to get our strength back. Love and hugs dear friend.
DeleteI have been so worried about you. That was an awful August for sure.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad Don is home again with help too for your sake.
Boy you really do things up with a bang...Covid... boo ...
So glad you had family to help you and that you are home again too. I have lots to share with you but it will have to wait for a while.
Love you my Dear Sister...
Sue
Hi Sue, I knew my friends would be worried about me, but none of my family blogs so couldn't let anyone know what was going on.
DeleteWe are both moving slowly, but getting stronger each day. Oh, what would we do without family.
Wish we could sit down and have that long visit, but in the meantime I guess email's will have to suffice.
Always love whats going on with you and Dave. Love you too.
I am so sorry to hear of all that you and your husband have been through! It is so good to hear you are both home! God bless you!
ReplyDeleteThank you Mrs. White. If anyone understands health issues and difficulties you do. We both share our love of God and know He's in control. Blessing and love
DeleteOh my goodness! Not a good August!
ReplyDeleteJust so pleased to read you are both home now.
Sending good wishes across the miles.
All the best Jan
Oh Thank you Jan. Appreciate your love and concern.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you both and keep you strong for each other. You are amazing. Healing prayers for you both....
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Linda, my kindred sister. Your prayers are felt and getting answered. Hugs
DeleteWell, I am also so glad to see this post! I had been thinking of you and your Hubby. I am just so glad you are both back home!
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how with Gods help we get through these tough times! And our family and friends help and prayers!
Sending you both prayers for continual healing and strength!
Hugs, Roxy
So true Roxy, We felt God soverign present in all the difficulties. He is truly refining us to His likeness and sometimes it in the midst of the most trying times. Love you.
DeleteSorry you've been having such a rough time. Hope September will be a better month all around for you!
ReplyDeleteSo nice to hear from you. Yes, September is already better. Fall is in the air, and soon I will be putting up some Fall decorations with the help of family.
DeleteWow, August did hit hard. I understand about the rehab - (having been thru that with my sis)....So glad he is home and you are recovered from Covid. Take care and enjoy the days ahead.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Sandy. Moving ahead with faith and hope.
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